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Does Black History Month matter? YES!

Black History Month matters because the story of Britain remains incomplete when Black lives, achievements and experiences are pushed to the margins. It gives us an opportunity to recognise people whose contributions have too often been overlooked, and to understand how our shared past shapes the communities we live in today.

That is why the decision by St Helens’ Reform-led council not to observe Black History Month is wrong. Council leader George Woodward has described the celebration as “racist” and “divisive”. Those words turn the purpose of the month upside down. Recognising people who have been excluded from our national story is an act of inclusion.

We should be precise: reporting confirms a refusal to observe the month, rather than a blanket ban on every mention of it. But the message sent by that refusal is damaging enough. It tells Black residents that recognising their heritage and contribution is somehow incompatible with bringing people together.

Black history is British history. It encompasses the horrors of slavery and colonialism, but also resistance, creativity, public service and achievement. It includes those who helped rebuild Britain, staffed our hospitals, shaped our music, strengthened our businesses and challenged injustice. These stories belong to everyone.

Across the Liverpool City Region, we cannot understand our history without confronting the wealth generated through the slave trade and recognising the communities that helped shape the region. Pride in where we live should give us the confidence to examine its history honestly.

There is also a human reason to mark this month. Children need to see that people like them have helped shape the world. Their classmates need to learn that achievement, courage and leadership have never belonged to one ethnicity. Understanding each other is a foundation for respect.

Arguments about scarce council resources deserve scrutiny, but describing Black History Month as a “subversive woke” movement offers prejudice where there should be leadership. A council should serve all its residents and help everyone feel that they belong.

The same principle applies when recognising LGBTQ+ history or the experiences of refugees. Visibility can challenge the ignorance that allows discrimination to grow.

St Helens deserves leadership that brings people together through understanding, curiosity and respect. Black History Month offers that opportunity.

The council should reverse its decision. A stronger community is built by listening to all its stories. Refusing to recognise some of them diminishes the whole community, including us all.

THE BIG MERSEYSIDE HUNT: HELP SAHIR FIND THE FAMILIES BEHIND FIVE AIDS MEMORIAL QUILTS?

Liverpool HIV charity Sahir is launching a major public appeal to trace the families, friends and stories of five men remembered in its historic AIDS Memorial Quilts.

The quilts were lovingly made by friends and relatives during the height of the AIDS epidemic. But more than 25 years later, much of the history behind them has been lost.

PICTURES OF THE QUILTS BELOW

Now, ahead of World AIDS Day on 1 December 2026, Sahir is asking Merseyside — and beyond — to help find the people who knew and loved the men so their lives and stories can be properly remembered.

The five men are:

  • Gary Crabtree – currently nothing more is known.

  • John McNeight – currently nothing more is known.

  • Gerard ‘Gerry’ Murphy – a hairdresser, born 19 February 1968. Gerry died on 29 March 1993, aged just 25.

  • David Robert Brewer, known as ‘Bopper’ – born on 18 February. His quilt may have been made by friends called Dean and Graham, and there are indications he may originally have come from Wales.

  • Eddie Boyne – 1960–1999.

All five men either came from Liverpool or died in the city.

Sahir Chief Executive Simon Harris said:

“These quilts have been packed away for years, but when you unfold them you realise immediately that they are not simply historical artefacts. They are people.

“Someone chose every photograph, every word and every stitch because they loved the person whose name is on that quilt.

“We know so little about some of these five men that, at the moment, we have little more than a name. I want to change that.

“Somewhere in Merseyside, and perhaps further afield, there will be brothers, sisters, cousins, old friends, former colleagues and neighbours who remember Gary, John, Gerry, Bopper and Eddie.

“We want their photographs. We want their stories. We want to know what made them laugh, where they worked, where they went out, who they loved and what they dreamed about.

“HIV history must never become simply a list of statistics. These were people with lives, families, friendships and futures. This World AIDS Day, we want to put the people back into the history.”

Sahir hopes to involve relatives and friends in its World AIDS Day 2026 commemorations, ensuring the five men are remembered for the lives they lived, rather than simply for the illness that took them.

Simon added:

“If you recognise one of these names — even if you think what you know is insignificant — please contact us. A nickname, a workplace, a pub they visited or the name of an old friend could be the piece of information that reconnects us with a family.

“Merseyside has an extraordinary memory. We are asking people to help us use it.”

Anyone with information about Gary Crabtree, John McNeight, Gerard ‘Gerry’ Murphy, David ‘Bopper’ Brewer or Eddie Boyne should contact Simon Harris at simon.harris@sahir.org.uk.

  • Photographs of the five memorial quilts are attached to this press release.

  • Simon Harris is available for media interviews about the appeal, the quilts,

  • Sahir’s World AIDS Day plans and the importance of preserving Liverpool’s HIV and AIDS history.

 

Stand Red With Sahir

Liverpool workplaces urged to ‘Stand Red With Sahir’ this World AIDS Day

Sahir launches new workplace partnership offering businesses a simple way to raise money, increase HIV awareness and challenge stigma.

Liverpool’s HIV and LGBTQ+ charity Sahir is calling on businesses and organisations across the Liverpool City Region to Stand Red With Sahir this World AIDS Day.

The new workplace initiative, launching ahead of World AIDS Day on Tuesday 1 December 2026, will see Sahir work directly with employers who want to raise funds, educate their teams and demonstrate their support for people living with HIV.

Sahir will provide participating workplaces with red ribbons, fundraising collection tins, HIV information and campaign literature, as well as safer sex packs where requested.

Businesses can organise their own activities, including Wear Red days, coffee mornings, quizzes, office collections or staff fundraising challenges. Employers will also be encouraged to match money raised by their teams.

Sahir can also provide a speaker to visit participating workplaces to talk about HIV today, the importance of tackling stigma and the charity’s work across Liverpool City Region.

Sahir Chief Executive Simon Harris said:

“We want this to be a genuine partnership. We can provide the ribbons, collection tins, information, expertise and speakers; businesses provide the people, enthusiasm and opportunity to reach new audiences.

“HIV has changed enormously, but stigma has not disappeared. World AIDS Day gives every workplace an opportunity to start a conversation, learn something and stand alongside people living with HIV.

“Whether you are a small office with ten people or a major Liverpool employer with thousands of staff, we would love you to Stand Red With Sahir.”

Sahir has supported people affected by HIV in Liverpool and the wider city region for more than 40 years. Today its work includes HIV support, prevention, sexual health information, LGBTQ+ services and challenging the inequalities and stigma that continue to affect local communities.

Businesses and organisations interested in taking part in Stand Red With Sahir are invited to contact Simon Harris at simon.harris@sahir.org.uk.

ENDS

Notes to editors

Stand Red With Sahir takes place in the run-up to World AIDS Day on 1 December 2026.

Sahir can provide participating organisations with red ribbons, collection tins, HIV information and literature, safer sex packs on request, digital campaign materials and workplace speakers.

Sahir is a Liverpool-based HIV and LGBTQ+ charity and has served communities across the region for more than 40 years.

Media enquiries/interviews:
Simon Harris, Chief Executive, Sahir
simon.harris@sahir.org.uk

Every Stitch Is Someone We Lost – We Remember Gerard

I have been Chief Executive of Sahir for 90 days, and almost since the day I arrived I have been meaning to spend some time with Sahir’s AIDS Memorial Quilts.

Today, I finally did.

For many people, HIV is understood through numbers. Around 15,000 lives lost in the UK. More than 44 million worldwide. Numbers so enormous they can become almost impossible to comprehend.

But nobody is a number.

I last lost a friend to HIV in 2003. I count myself extraordinarily lucky that advances in medical science have transformed HIV treatment so completely. There was a time when funerals seemed to arrive with frightening regularity; when another diagnosis could mean preparing yourself for another goodbye.

Thankfully, those funerals no longer fill my diary.

And perhaps, with the passing of time, it becomes easier to forget just how much was lost.

Then today we unfurled the quilts.

Suddenly, HIV wasn’t a statistic. It was names. Photographs. Dates. Pieces of clothing. Messages from mothers, partners, friends and families. Carefully stitched pieces of lives that ended far too soon.

I didn’t know any of the people memorialised on those quilts, but I felt their absence.

One panel in particular stayed with me: Gerard Murphy.

I found myself thinking about his mum. About the hands that may have chosen the photographs and fabric. About the unbearable act of reducing a son’s life to a square of cloth because there would be no more birthdays, Christmases, phone calls or ordinary days together.

Thirty-three years later, I wonder about her.

Grief doesn’t disappear because the years pass. A mother’s love certainly doesn’t.

That is the extraordinary power of the AIDS Memorial Quilt. It refuses to allow people to become statistics. It says: this person was here. They were loved. They mattered. Remember them.

Next year, the national AIDS Memorial Quilt will come to Liverpool, bringing with it hundreds more names, hundreds more stories and countless reminders of a generation we lost.

And remembering matters.

Because HIV has changed, but it has not gone away. Neither has the stigma that surrounded it then and, shamefully, still exists today.

In Sahir’s earliest days, much of our work was about managing death: supporting people through illness, loss and grief at a time when there was so little hope.

Today, because of extraordinary advances in medicine, our work is overwhelmingly about supporting people to live — to live well, confidently, openly and without shame.

That transformation is something worth celebrating.

But our job is not finished.

We must continue fighting stigma. We must continue educating. We must continue supporting people living with HIV. And we must continue saying the names of those who never had the opportunity to benefit from the treatments available today.

So today, we remember Gerard.

We remember every life stitched into those quilts.

And we remember that behind every HIV statistic there was, and always will be, a human being.

Someone’s child. Someone’s partner. Someone’s friend.

Someone who mattered.

 

Simon Harris

 

WHEN ATTACKING DIVERSITY BECOMES NORMAL

There was a time when politicians would have hesitated before openly attacking diversity, inclusion and equality.

Not anymore.

Across politics, attacks on diversity have become increasingly normalised. Diversity is dismissed as “woke”, equality initiatives are portrayed as unnecessary bureaucracy, and minorities are too often turned into convenient political dividing lines.

That should concern all of us.

Because diversity is not an ideology. It is a fact.

Our communities are made up of people of different races, religions, sexual orientations, gender identities, backgrounds, abilities and experiences. Recognising that reality does not divide society. Pretending those differences — and the inequalities that sometimes come with them — do not exist is what causes harm.

The argument we increasingly hear is simple: stop talking about identity, stop treating groups differently and just treat everybody the same.

But equality has never been that simple.

Treating everybody identically only produces equality if everybody begins from the same position and faces the same barriers. They do not.

For LGBTQ+ communities, we know this from history.

The rights many of us now take for granted were achieved precisely because people challenged discrimination. Same-sex relationships were criminalised. Gay men were dismissed from jobs. LGBTQ+ people were treated as mentally ill. Section 28 deliberately restricted discussion of homosexuality in schools.

Progress did not happen because society stopped talking about inequality. It happened because people refused to ignore it.

The same lesson runs through the history of HIV.

HIV stigma was allowed to flourish partly because those most affected were often people society was already comfortable marginalising: gay and bisexual men, Black African communities, migrants, people who use drugs and others whose voices were too easily ignored.

We have made extraordinary medical progress. Today, effective HIV treatment means people can live long, healthy lives, and someone with an undetectable viral load cannot sexually transmit HIV.

But science alone cannot eradicate prejudice.

People still fear taking an HIV test because of stigma. People living with HIV still encounter ignorance and discrimination. LGBTQ+ people continue to experience inequalities in healthcare, housing, employment and personal safety.

That is precisely why the political retreat from diversity matters.

When politicians repeatedly portray diversity as a problem, something changes. Language once considered unacceptable becomes mainstream. Prejudice is given permission to dress itself up as common sense. People who already feel vulnerable hear something very clearly: perhaps your equality is negotiable after all.

And there is another side to this debate which is too often forgotten.

Diversity works.

Organisations make better decisions when different experiences are represented. Healthcare works better when services understand the communities they serve. Employers benefit from wider perspectives. Communities become stronger when people feel they belong rather than feeling they must hide part of themselves to be accepted.

At Sahir, we see the importance of this every day.

We support people living with HIV, LGBTQ+ people, refugees and asylum seekers, families, young people and communities from across the Liverpool City Region.

Behind the political arguments about “diversity” are real human beings.

A teenager wondering whether coming out will cost them their family.

A trans person deciding whether they feel safe enough to ask for healthcare.

Someone newly diagnosed with HIV terrified that their friends will reject them.

An LGBTQ+ asylum seeker who has escaped a country where being themselves could mean imprisonment, violence or death.

To them, diversity and inclusion are not fashionable slogans.

They can mean being listened to rather than dismissed. Receiving appropriate healthcare rather than avoiding it. Finding safety rather than facing hostility. Belonging rather than merely being tolerated.

Of course diversity initiatives should be effective, evidence-based and accountable. Like any policy, they should be open to scrutiny and improvement.

But there is a vast difference between questioning how we promote equality and questioning whether equality itself has gone too far.

That is the line we must not allow political debate to erase.

Diversity is not something Britain should fear.

It is part of who Britain is.

And at a time when attacking diversity has become politically fashionable, those of us who believe in equality should be prepared to say something unfashionably simple:

Our differences are not the problem. How we choose to treat one another is.

How Sahir Helped One Woman Regain Her Independence

At Sahir, we understand that living with HIV can affect far more than someone’s physical health. Financial pressures, reduced mobility, unsuitable housing and social isolation can all make everyday life increasingly difficult.

That is why our support is always shaped around the individual.

One woman living with HIV who came to Sahir was also undergoing regular dialysis treatment. Her health conditions had significantly reduced her energy and mobility, making it difficult for her to leave home, complete everyday tasks or stay connected with her community.

As her independence declined, she was becoming increasingly isolated.

Finding a practical solution

Our HIV support team worked closely with her to understand what would make the greatest difference. Together, we identified that a mobility scooter could give her greater freedom and help her reconnect with the world around her.

Sahir supported her to find and visit a local mobility supplier, where she was able to choose a scooter that met her needs.

We also negotiated a 12-month interest-free payment plan with the supplier, helping to make the scooter financially manageable.

But our support did not stop there.

When it became clear that she could not easily move the scooter in and out of her home, a member of the Sahir team visited her property to assess the problem. We then referred her to Liverpool City Council’s Adult Care Service for an occupational therapist assessment, including consideration of whether a ramp could be provided.

Sahir also helped her arrange the safe disposal of clinical waste from her home and supported her with a review of her Universal Credit claim.

A renewed sense of freedom

She now has her mobility scooter and can travel independently for the first time in a long while.

This has already helped her rebuild social connections, engage more fully with her community and regain a sense of freedom and control over her life. She told us how pleased she was with the support she had received and is now waiting for an occupational therapist assessment to improve access to her home further.

This is what Sahir’s work looks like.

It is listening to someone, understanding the barriers they face and staying alongside them until practical solutions can be found. It is advocacy, persistence and compassionate support tailored to the whole person—not simply their HIV status.

Your donations help Sahir continue providing this life-changing support to people living with HIV across the Liverpool City Region.

Help us transform more lives

Every donation, whatever its size, helps Sahir give people the practical support, advocacy and human connection they need.

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Some personal details have been kept general to protect the service user’s identity.

World Non-Binary Day: Respect Costs Nothing

Every year on 14 July, we mark World Non-Binary Day, a day that sits exactly halfway between International Women’s Day and International Men’s Day. It’s a symbolic reminder that not everyone experiences or expresses gender in the same way.

For many people, being non-binary isn’t a political statement or a trend. It’s simply the most honest way to describe who they are.

Non-binary is an umbrella term used by people whose gender identity doesn’t fit exclusively as male or female. Some feel they are both. Some feel they are neither. Others experience gender as something more fluid. What unites them is a desire to live authentically, rather than trying to force themselves into categories that don’t reflect their lived experience.

The UK Census found around 30,000 people identified as non-binary. While that may seem like a small number, every one of those people deserves the same dignity, respect and opportunity as everyone else.

For many non-binary people, life can be challenging. Something as simple as introducing yourself, filling in a form, using a public toilet or correcting someone who has used the wrong pronouns can become a source of anxiety. Public debate about gender often means people become the subject of discussion rather than participants in it.

You don’t need to fully understand or relate to someone’s experiences of sex and gender to treat them with kindness. Respect doesn’t require complete understanding, it simply requires recognising another person’s humanity

Using someone’s name and pronouns, listening to their experiences, and avoiding assumptions about who they are costs nothing. Yet those small acts can have an enormous impact on someone’s wellbeing and sense of belonging.

At Sahir, we know that everyone deserves to feel safe, valued and able to be themselves. For more than 40 years we have supported LGBTQ+ people and people living with HIV across the Liverpool City Region, and we have seen first-hand the difference that acceptance and inclusion can make.

This World Non-Binary Day, let’s choose curiosity over judgement, compassion over hostility and respect over division. We may not all share the same experiences, but we can all choose to treat one another with dignity.

Because everyone deserves the freedom to be themselves.

Simon Harris

CEO – Sahir

How Liverpool Is Shaping HIV Research

By Christine Goffinet

Chair in Virology

Liverpool School of Tropical Medicine

For over 125 years, Liverpool School of Tropical Medicine (LSTM) has been a world leader in global health research, helping to identify, treat and eliminate some of the world’s deadliest diseases. Today, my research team is focused on finding a cure for HIV, a life changing disease that affects over 112,000 people in the UK, and millions worldwide.

Antiretroviral therapy (ART) is one of the greatest achievements in global health research. It can keep the virus suppressed and can allow people to live long, healthy lives. But it isn’t a cure and was never designed to be a permanent solution. Many suffer side-effects, serving a daily reminder of their HIV status.

Worldwide, 39 million people live with HIV, and 1.3 million acquired the infection last year. Keeping them on ART for life costs over $21.9 billion annually and access to these drugs depends on political will, continued funding, and complex supply chains. The fragility of this system was recently brought into stark relief by significant funding cuts to global HIV programmes. These cuts are projected to drive up new infections and deaths in the coming decades. A cure wouldn’t remove the need for HIV investment overnight, but it would create a far more robust and reliable system.

But, if the need is so great, why hasn’t a cure been found? HIV is a very sophisticated virus. It hides, dormant, inside immune cells, invisible to treatments and the immune system. My team is seeking to outsmart the virus with “shock and kill” treatments; waking the sleeping virus up, and then using natural immune signals to help the body’s own immune cells to recognise and destroy it. This is cutting edge science being worked on right here in Liverpool.

LSTM’s research also focuses on HIV as a global disease. Most HIV cure research focuses on the viral subtype most common in the US and Europe, but a different subtype found in Southern African and Southeast Asia accounts for nearly half of infections worldwide. A cure for only on subtype will never be effective, so I’m reaching out beyond Liverpool, working with researchers in South Africa, Malawi and beyond to develop a truly global and lasting cure.

An HIV cure can’t be designed solely in a lab. Recently, Sahir House and George House Trust invited us to learn from people living with HIV at an event titled “Have Your Say on HIV Cure Research”. We had fascinating discussions, learning that some were happy to continue ART indefinitely, but that many were desperate for a cure. It was also clear that proving people’s cured status was essential, although this would require finding an alternative to a standard antibody test because HIV antibodies would always be present even if cured. We’re now working with both organisations to expand this work with an ongoing Patient Advisory Group, so community voices can continue to shape our research.

There is a famous, anonymous quote that I often think about, “One day, I’d love to say, ‘I used to have HIV'”. These words inspire me, finding a cure and helping to realise this person’s dream keeps me going. The power of these words also shows that the voices of people with HIV are essential in shaping LSTM’s work and convincing funders and governments to continue supporting research efforts.

I’m grateful to Sahir House and George House Trust for their partnership, and to everyone who has shared their experience with us. If you’re living with HIV and want your voice heard, we’d love to hear from you.

Liverpool Pride – Reflection & Duty

By Sahir CEO, Simon Harris.    

Liverpool celebrates Pride later this month, on 25 July. Now is a moment to reflect on what Pride is really about.

More than 60 countries still criminalise same-sex relationships. In several, simply being LGBTQ+ can still cost you your freedom—or even your life.

Across the world, trans people continue to be demonised, subjected to violence and denied basic dignity simply for existing.

Online, LGBTQ+ people are abused every day. Lies spread through algorithms that reward outrage, turning hate into profit. Too many social media companies have decided that engagement matters more than truth.

In Russia, a gay nightclub owner has been sentenced to seven years in prison after being accused of involvement with an alleged “international LGBTQ+ movement.”

In Uganda, one of the world’s harshest anti-LGBTQ+ laws continues to threaten lives, with severe prison sentences and even the death penalty in some circumstances.

In Hungary, governments have sought to restrict Pride events and LGBTQ+ visibility, attempting to push our community out of public life.

This is why Pride matters.

Pride began as a protest. Somewhere along the way it also became a celebration; and we do have so much to celebrate. But we must never forget that its purpose has always been to demand equality, visibility and justice.

On July 1 many companies will quietly take down their rainbow flags until next June. Equality is not a marketing campaign. Pride cannot be something we pack away with the bunting. It must be a year-round commitment.

Here in Liverpool, we have the chance to show the world what this city stands for.

Let’s demonstrate the true Merseyside spirit. Let’s show that ours is a city built on kindness, solidarity and compassion. A city that welcomes people rather than judges them. A city that stands beside those who are marginalised instead of turning its back.

I’m incredibly proud that **Sahir** will once again be at the heart of Liverpool Pride, helping to make the day welcoming, inclusive and safe for everyone.

If Pride isn’t your thing -if the crowds feel overwhelming, the music is too loud, or you simply need a quieter way to cel ebrate—you are not forgotten.

Access Pride, organised by Sahir, offers a calmer, more accessible Pride experience where everyone belongs. It’s a welcoming space to meet friends, enjoy entertainment, access support or simply take a breather. Pride should be accessible to everyone, and Access Pride helps make that a reality. READ MORE HERE

At Sahir, we also support dozens of LGBTQ+ people seeking asylum. Many have fled countries where they faced persecution because of who they are. Too often, they arrive here only to face suspicion, hostility or prejudice because of who they love or where they come from.

Let’s make sure Liverpool Pride is the one day of the year when every LGBTQ+ asylum seeker feels truly welcomed, embraced and safe. Then let’s challenge ourselves to make the other 364 days feel exactly the same.

When Liverpool marches on 25 July, let’s make a promise that our commitment won’t end when the last rainbow flag comes down.

Until every LGBTQ+ person can live openly, safely and equally, none of us should be complacent.

Over the next twelve months, let’s continue campaigning—not for special treatment, but for the same rights, the same dignity and the same acceptance as everyone else.

That’s what Pride is.

That’s what Liverpool stands for.

And that’s the message we should send to the world.

Mental Health and Well-being with Martin Furber

Well, April was a busy month, both good and bad.

It was great to see our local celeb, Danny Beard coming second on CBB – personally I think he was head and shoulders above everyone and should absolutely have won this outright.

Danny of course is a staunch supporter of our trans-siblings and used his very first interview, the moment he was through the door, to support them. This of course brings me onto the other big subject from April – the ruling on trans and sex at birth etc.

I’ve been doing a lot of work with trans women over the past two years, helping them overcome the mental challenges they face when using their newly trained, femme voices. Unsurprisingly, many of them have contacted me since the announcement to express their fears.

As a gay, cis-gender male, I won’t pretend for one minute I can truly know how this makes my trans-siblings feel. However, we can all offer our support and stick together as a community. I always like to think back to the 1980s and 90s, when of course AIDS/HIV was ripping through our communities; I lost many friends at the time. Some of our biggest allies were our lesbian sisters, fighting for research and lobbying our MPs. Why? Well, you’ll have to ask them, but I like to think it was down to the sense of community we need to have to survive what the world throws at us. It may be a soundbite, but we are all genuinely, stronger together. It’s good for our sense of self and our mental well-being.

Just as in the same way gay men were blamed for everything wrong in society in the 1980s, our trans community are copping for the vile rhetoric at the moment. Reach out – offer your support – we are all in this together.

Moving onto this month’s Mental Health topics. Mental health is so misunderstood and carries so much stigma. Much of the stigma is due to misunderstanding, or lack of knowledge. One word which is sure to get people worries is ‘Psycho’ or ‘Psychosis’ to give it its proper name.

Just hearing the word can often conjure up frightening images, often fuelled by sensationalised media portrayals. However, the reality of psychosis is often far removed from these dramatic depictions. It’s crucial to understand that psychosis is primarily characterised by a disconnect from reality, affecting how a person thinks, feels, and perceives the world around them. It’s not about inherent danger towards others.

In simple terms, we can think of psychosis in some ways like being very unwell with a high fever. When someone has a severe temperature, they might say things that don’t make sense, become disoriented, or even hallucinate. Their grip on reality is temporarily altered by their physical illness. Similarly, in psychosis, changes in brain function can lead to a temporary detachment from reality. Postpartum psychosis, which can occur after childbirth, is a specific example where hormonal shifts can contribute to this altered state, much like a physical illness impacting mental clarity.

Schizophrenia is perhaps the most well-known term, but psychotic symptoms can also occur in other illness such as bipolar disorder or severe depression. While the symptoms can be distressing, it’s important to remember that these are signs of an underlying health issue that needs understanding and support, not something to be feared.

I think it’s also important to mention the potential link between cannabis and other drug use, particularly high-potency strains and early or heavy use, and the increased risk of developing psychosis in vulnerable individuals. While cannabis doesn’t cause psychosis in everyone, it can trigger or exacerbate psychotic symptoms in those who may have a predisposition to it. This highlights the importance of being aware of the potential risks, especially for younger people, under 25, whose brains are still developing.

Of course, I never, ever make judgement on drug use, and being from the inner city, being gay, and having been around the block many times, know just how much a part of our culture drugs can play. Whether it is trying to block something out from our past, trying to fit in – or just partaking in the odd chem sesh which turns into a deeper habit, drugs are all around us.

There are of course many sources of help out there if you are worried about your own drug use. One which people tell me is particularly helpful is ‘Talk to Frank’, 24/7 on 0300 123 6600. It is not specifically aimed at our community; however you can call in confidence, without judgement, which is of course the most important thing in my book.

I’ll be back with this column in June, in the meantime, if you’d like to get in touch then please contact me at solutions@martinfurber.com

Mental Health & Well-being with Martin Furber, March/April 25

The clocks are springing forward on the last Sunday in March, and while we might grumble about losing an hour of sleep, let’s look at this as a fantastic opportunity to inject some sunshine into our lives – both literally and metaphorically.

Here in the North, we know a thing or two about appreciating a bit of extra daylight. After those long winter months, the longer days and brighter evenings are like a breath of fresh air. And it’s not just in our heads – there’s actual science behind why we feel better when the sun shines.

Our bodies are naturally attuned to the rhythms of the sun. Sunlight triggers the production of vitamin D, which plays a crucial role in regulating mood, boosting the immune system, and promoting bone health. Studies have shown that increased exposure to sunlight can lead to a rise in serotonin levels, the “feel-good” neurotransmitter that helps regulate mood, sleep, and appetite.

So, how can we make the most of this extra daylight and use the clock change as a springboard for improving our mental well-being?

First and foremost, let’s talk about sleep. Yes, we lose an hour, but this is a great time to re-evaluate our sleep habits. Sleep is absolutely vital for our mental and physical health. It allows our bodies to repair and our minds to recharge. Aim for a consistent sleep schedule, even on weekends, and create a relaxing bedtime routine.

Routine, in general, is a great thing for our mental health. Our minds appreciate a bit of structure. With the extra daylight, this is a great time to create a new routine or re-establish a good old one.

The longer days also provide an opportunity to reconnect with nature. Spending time in nature has been shown to reduce stress, improve mood, and boost cognitive function. Even a short walk in a local park can have a positive impact.

And let’s not forget the power of social connection. With lighter evenings, it’s easier to meet up with friends and family. Social connection is essential for our mental well-being. It provides a sense of belonging, support, and connection.

The clock change is a gentle nudge from nature, reminding us to embrace the light, reconnect with ourselves, and prioritize our well-being. Let’s use this opportunity to spring forward into a brighter and happier season. After all, a little bit of sunshine can go a long way. And who knows, you might just find that you’re feeling a little bit brighter, a little bit lighter, and a little bit more ready to tackle whatever comes your way.

April, is ‘Stress Awareness Month’, and let’s face it – those of us who identify under the rainbow flag seem to experience more than our fair share of it as we journey through life, so I thought that is a good subject to talk to you about this month.

We all know that feeling of being stressed – that knot in your stomach, the tension in your shoulders, the racing heart. But have you ever stopped to wonder what’s actually happening inside your body when you feel stressed? It’s not just in your head; stress has a very real and tangible impact on our physical health.

As a solution-focused therapist, I believe in empowering people with knowledge. Understanding the physical connection to stress can help us recognise the signs and take steps to manage it effectively. So, let’s delve into the fascinating world of how stress affects our bodies.

When we experience stress, our bodies activate the “fight or flight” response, an ancient survival mechanism designed to help us cope with danger. This response triggers the release of hormones like cortisol and adrenaline, which prepare us for action.

Imagine you’re walking through a wooded area, and suddenly you see a potential threat. Your body instantly kicks into gear. Your heart rate increases, your breathing becomes rapid, your muscles tense, and your senses sharpen. This is your body’s way of preparing you to either fight or flee.

While this response is helpful in short bursts, chronic stress – the kind we experience in our daily lives – can take a toll on our bodies. When cortisol and adrenaline are constantly elevated, they can disrupt various bodily functions.

Here are some of the ways stress manifests physically:

  • Muscle Tension: Stress often leads to muscle tension, particularly in the neck, shoulders, and back. This can result in headaches, aches, and pains.
  • Digestive Problems: Stress can affect our digestive system, leading to symptoms like stomach aches, indigestion, and irritable bowel syndrome (IBS).
  • Sleep Disturbances: Stress can interfere with our ability to fall asleep or stay asleep, leading to insomnia and fatigue.
  • Weakened Immune System: Chronic stress can weaken our immune system, making us more susceptible to illness.
  • Cardiovascular Issues: Stress can increase our heart rate and blood pressure, potentially contributing to cardiovascular problems over time.
  • Changes in Appetite: Some people experience a loss of appetite when stressed, while others find themselves craving comfort foods.
  • Skin Problems: Stress can exacerbate skin conditions like eczema and psoriasis.

It’s important to recognise these physical signs of stress and take steps to manage them. Here are some practical tips for physical stress relief:

  • Deep Breathing: Slow, deep breaths can help to calm the nervous system and reduce muscle tension.
  • Progressive Muscle Relaxation: This technique involves tensing and releasing different muscle groups in your body, helping to release tension.
  • Physical Activity: Exercise is a great way to relieve stress and release endorphins, which have mood-boosting effects. Even a short walk can make a difference.
  • Yoga and Tai Chi: These practices combine physical movement with deep breathing and mindfulness, promoting relaxation and stress reduction.
  • Massage Therapy: Massage can help to release muscle tension and promote relaxation.
  • Warm Baths: A warm bath can soothe tense muscles and promote relaxation.
  • Prioritise Sleep: Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night.
  • Healthy Diet: Eating a balanced diet can help to support your body’s ability to cope with stress.

It’s about recognising that our bodies are intricately connected to our minds. By paying attention to the physical signs of stress and taking steps to manage them, we can improve our overall well-being and build resilience. Remember, taking care of your body is an important part of taking care of your mental health.

I’ll be back with this column in May, in the meantime, if you’d like to get in touch then please contact me at solutions@martinfurber.com

Running with Pride: Liverpool Frontrunners and a Decade of Community

I first joined Liverpool Frontrunners in October 2023 with the basic goal of getting into running to improve my fitness. The thought of running alone on those pitch-black autumn evenings as a queer woman was terrifying, so Liverpool Frontrunners was the perfect solution. Now, if you had told me that after about a year I would be signing myself up for the Liverpool Half Marathon, I would’ve laughed at the thought. I could barely breathe, let alone hold a conversation whilst running, so signing up for races was the last thing on my mind. But here I am, having just completed my first half marathon alongside my fellow Frontrunners, raising money together for the incredible charity that is Sahir.

For those of you that might never have heard of us before, Liverpool Frontrunners is an LGBTQ+ inclusive running group that meets up at Sefton Park every Wednesday, light or dark, rain or shine, ready to run. The club welcomes runners of all abilities, whether you’ve completed countless marathons, enjoy a casual jog, or it’s your first time giving running a chance. We operate three loops each week, facilitated by our lovely run leaders who are there to guide you every step of the way. All LGBTQ+ people and allies are welcome to participate, running whichever combination of our loops works best, whether that’s just loop 1, the 1st and 3rd, or all three! Many of our members’ favorite section of the night is the cool, crisp pint/soft drink on Lark Lane once all the running is done.

Additionally, many Frontrunners regularly participate in Parkrun on a Saturday morning, a free 5km run that occurs in over 2,000 locations globally. We tend to meet up for a freshly brewed coffee, a Full English, and a lot of yapping following Parkrun. We’re an ever-growing community that welcomes new faces, celebrates the progress of our members, and is here for a good time.

Liverpool Frontrunners was established in 2015, making this year our 10-year anniversary (cheers to that!) The absence of LGBTQ+ sporting groups at the time presented the perfect opportunity for Liverpool Frontrunners to be born. There are many barriers that LGBTQ+ people face when trying to get involved in sport, including underrepresentation of queer people, a lack of safe, accessible options, and being deterred from participating since childhood. The aim of the club is to overcome these barriers, increase LGBTQ+ visibility, promote physical and mental well-being amongst the community, and allow queer people to embrace their whole identities to live as their most authentic selves.

We are proud to serve our local LGBTQ+ communities, providing a safe space away from homophobia, biphobia, and transphobia. Liverpool Frontrunners is home to over 300 members and is proud to be one of over 120 LGBTQ+ running clubs that make up International Frontrunners, a global network that began in San Francisco in 1974.

Although we are primarily a running club, our Social Secretaries organize a variety of social events to allow us to make true connections with one another and build friendships to last a lifetime. From go-karting to scenic hikes to trips abroad, we’ve got a bit of something for everyone. Here’s what our members have to say in response to the question: ‘What do you love most about Frontrunners?’

“The beautiful friendships I’ve gained and the memories I’ve made.”
“I feel just as comfortable going out for a run as I do going out for a drink, it’s a fab group of people.”
“The support and drive from your Frontrunners to be the best runner you can be.”

Since joining Liverpool Frontrunners, I personally feel like I’ve come a long way compared to where I was when I first started (and not only in kilometers run!) In terms of my fitness level, I don’t think I’ve ever been as healthy as I am today, and I wouldn’t have had the resilience to keep running if it wasn’t for this gorgeous community. In terms of my confidence, the support I’ve found at this club has driven me to join the Committee and become a Run Leader – despite consistently taking wrong turns when left to my own instincts. In terms of embracing my queerness, I will never be able to thank Frontrunners enough for the beautiful friendships I’ve made and the opportunity to meet so many diverse, open-minded LGBTQ+ people. As a queer woman, it can feel almost impossible to find other queer women to connect with, and so being part of a club that welcomes and embraces LGBTQ+ women and non-binary people is a dream come true.

So, what did Liverpool Frontrunners do to celebrate this wonderful community and honor our 10-year anniversary? As I teased at the beginning, Liverpool Frontrunners partnered up with Sahir to fundraise for this amazing charity in the lead-up to the Liverpool Half Marathon. For many Frontrunners (myself included), this was their first half marathon, and what better way to burst onto the race scene than by raising money for an excellent cause?

Sahir is the Liverpool City Region’s largest and oldest LGBTQ+ charity, which has supported and empowered LGBTQ+ communities and people living with/affected by HIV since 1985. Much like Liverpool Frontrunners, Sahir is celebrating an important milestone this year as they reach their 40-year anniversary! By providing services such as counseling, HIV support, sexual health services, and support groups, they have helped transform lives and improve local communities for four decades.

We hoped that through this fundraiser, we could contribute to the vital work that Sahir undertakes day-in, day-out, to see a brighter, healthier future, and give back to an organization that has done so much for us already. Thanks to our generous donors, we have already increased our target twice after smashing our original goals and have raised over £1500 to date. If you are able, please click here to donate today, where 100% of the money raised will go directly to Sahir.

Sahir has a plethora of exciting events around the corner, including their Eurovision All Stars night at OMG on Friday 16th May, as well as their second annual Drag and Drop event, a charity abseil down Liverpool’s Anglican Cathedral on Saturday 19th July. They also have the Pound for Sahir appeal, whereby donating just £1 a month, you can contribute to the facilitation of the vital services that Sahir delivers to those who need it most. If you’re interested in finding out more and supporting a great cause, please check out their website by clicking here.

Sahir isn’t the only one with a busy schedule for this year – us lot at Liverpool Frontrunners have plenty in store from races to kit drops to sunny socials, our 2025/26 Committee is going to be busy indeed! If you’d like to find out more about our club, please visit our Instagram page by clicking here, and we hope to see you at a Wednesday run or Parkrun soon!

Love from,
Poppy (She/Her) x